Hello. I need some help. Me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. He's a year older and is in high school now. I still go to the school we both went to. We...
Hi,This week I was caught smoking by someone I know. She says I have to tell my parents that I smoke, but I don’t know what to say.
Is it wrong to snog (make out) in a relationship when you are both Christians?
Is it normal for a girl to bleed the first time she has intercourse?Is there something wrong if she doesn’t bleed?Is it sore the first time?From a girl, 14.
How do you know you're gay?
I worked on Sunday and I wonder if I will go to hell for breaking one of the Ten Commandments?
Hi! Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. I often get irritated and annoyed as he behaves a bit strangely sometimes. For example, one...
Hi!My boyfriend and I are both Christians and we've decided to wait with sex until we get married. He's also very clear about lust and masturbating not being...
Hi... I'm wondering if it's normal to want to have intercourse at the age of 13-14? I'm a little embarrassed about it... I don't want children either... I know...
I’m really addicted to porn, how can I manage to quit and how can I stop thinking about girls sexually? I’m a Christian.
I find it hard to know what to say in social situations. How can I start a conversation with it being embarrassing?
Hi, I’m a fifteen-year-old girl and I noticed that Paul says in 1 Corinthians 14:35–36 that girls/women should remain silent in the churches. Why isn’t this...
Hi, I’m a boy of fifteen, and I’m dating. It’s actually really nice, but we argue all the time. Have you got any tips about how we can stop arguing so much?
Hello! I'm a 13-year-old girl and I've found out that when I have my period I am completely empty and mad at everyone and everything. I do not know what for,...
Hi, I don’t know if this question is very strange or not. It isn’t so much about the Bible, but about the period. I’m a Christian girl of thirteen, soon...
Hello,When I lived abroad last year, I was with someone who had been a Christian before but wasn't anymore. I'm a Christian, and he knew where my boundaries...
I’ve been really moved by a recent campaign against child marriage. What do you think about child marriage? Was it normal in Bible times? I think it’s terrible...
Hi! I'm getting married soon, but I've got a few worries buzzing round in my head. I'm scared he mightn't like my looks. We're both Christians and have the...
Hi. Me and my girlfriend are Christians. We love each other but haven’t seen each other for over 6 months, as we live a long way apart. One time she sent me a...
I’m a girl of fifteen and my boyfriend is also fifteen. He isn’t a Christian, and I find this very sad and difficult. He asks me a lot about my faith and...
How old do you have to be to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend?
Hi, I’m a girl of 17 and I’ve got a fantastic boyfriend, we’ve been together for eight months. He doesn’t live in Norway, but we are both certain that we have a...
I like a girl, and she also likes me (we’re almost dating), but in the past few weeks I’ve been very busy, and I think that I’m losing interest. I’ve been in...
Hi … I love your website … I’ve got three questions … 1: Is it wrong to be in love with someone a year older than me? (I’m 14 and he’s 15). 2: I want to ask him...
Hi, I was wondering if I can go to the toilet after taking the morning-after pill, or if I will lose it and have to take another?
Hi, I’m a boy of fourteen. I was just wondering if masturbation is wrong? I don’t watch porn or look at porn magazines. Is it a sin, and should I stop?
Is it a sin to look at porn?
Hi,I’m 30 and still single, in fact I’ve always been single.Recently it’s become really important for me to find someone. I’ve always wanted to have a...
Hi! I’m a girl of sixteen. I am bisexual and these days I’m with a girl who is soon seventeen. All we want is to be together for ever, but we know that we...
I am fairly certain that I was born in the wrong body. I want to wear girl's clothes and be a girl, but the problem is I don't get my parents' permission to do...
Fertility rates in many Western countries are going down, and people are encouraged to have children earlier. If people don’t have sex before they get married...
I’m a girl of fifteen, and I’ve sometimes shaved between my legs, but then I’ve got red spots there. I didn’t use any special cream, or soap, just a razor...
Hello!I have a boyfriend I met online, who's in the USA. I am very fond of him and we have been together for 8 months. All the same we have never met, only...
Is it okay to have sex when you are a Christian, 15 years old and your girl/boyfriend has touched your breasts?
I’m a 16-year-old Christian girl. I feel like I’m in love with being in love, as they say, and I have to try hard not to be in love all the time. I’ve spent all...
Hi, I’ve got a great friend who I really like, and have started to wonder if we should start to date. A lot of people have asked if we are dating, or are in...
Hi, I was wondering if you have any arguments against abortion?
Hi, I'm a girl of seventeen, and I don’t have breasts! I really don’t have any! This is extremely embarrassing for me!Is there any way to get bigger boobs? Any...
Can girls and boys actually just be friends? So that neither of them will ever develop feelings for the other?
What do you think about asexuality?
My boyfriend does not want to pray out loud. He has a quiet way of expressing his faith. Is that okay?
Hi thereFirst of all, I just want to say that it's so good that you have such a page, really appreciate it. I have a couple of questions:1) Does the Bible say...
If my mum has small breasts will I have the same?
Is it OK to share a bed when I stay overnight with my girlfriend?
I have had a boyfriend for about 6 months now. We have not had sex, because both of us wish to wait until marriage. We strive to have good boundaries. Where is...
Is it actually a sin, according to the BIble, to think about having sex, and imagine it? Not with a certain person, but just as a general thought? Sometimes I...
I’m a girl of 13. I’m in love with a boy who isn’t in love with me. I feel that he almost doesn’t even know that I exist. I get really sad. I just want to...
I stay on campus at a college, and I’ve got a crush on a guy there. However, a friend says she thinks he’s really arrogant. I don’t understand this as he seems...
Hi. A friend of mine was forced to have sex and the whole neighbourhood, including the church, got to hear about it. The rumour was that she had had sex. It’s...
Is it safe to suck or lick when you only have one partner?
Is it OK for a guy and a girl to lie together during the day, for example after dinner?
How can I tell my partner that I used to watch porn?
Hi, is it possible to get a bigger penis?From a guy, 15.
Hi, I am a girl of 13 years old who attends a Christian private school and will start secondary school after the summer. Both Primary school and secondary...
Hi, I’ve got some questions I’d like to ask you!1. What can help during period pains?2. Is it normal to feel that you are bleeding during the period?3.
Hi, Girl 15 here. I have some questions I would like you to answer. I've watched porn before and masturbated myself. When I'm done, I feel disgusting. I regret...
Hi. I’ve got a girlfriend, we’ve been together about a year. Everything’s fine, apart from her wanting me to put my finger in her bum sometimes. Sometimes she...
Hey, I'm a 19-year-old guy, and I've come to realize that I have feelings of attraction towards the same gender that I can't shake off.I'm actively working on...
From a 10 year old girl, my nipples are growing but I haven’t had my period yet. There are some brown stains in my pants, but it’s not painful.ANONYMOUS
Hi, I like a boy. The problem is that he is a member of another denomination where they aren’t ‘allowed’ to be in a relationship with people other than those...
Is it normal to be head over heels in love with a 26-year-old when you’re fourteen?
Is the girl's pee hole bigger than the boy's? If you know what I mean?
Hi, I’m a 21-year-old bisexual guy, and I want to know how I can get my focus off men. I believe that homosexual sex is wrong and immoral, and at the same time...
What differences are there between boy friendships and girl friendships?
Hi boyandgirl,I’m a girl of almost fifteen, and I haven’t got my period yet. Is that normal?
Is it wrong to think about kissing and cuddling another person, the same way it is wrong to lust after sex with someone before marriage?
Hi, I am a girl about to start in ninth grade after summer. Sometimes I have fantasies about sex, and naked boys. It all started about two years ago, and I want...
Hi, I’m a boy, I’m soon 15, and I’m wondering how and where I will find the right girlfriend. I don’t want Miss Universe, I just want an honest, kind girl. I’ve...
I’m not doing so well. I’m in my final year of high school and I’ve tried really hard to get some good friends for years, But no matter how much I take the...
Is it completely wrong to think that several girls are pretty and could imagine having sex with them?
What is lust? It says in the Bible that you shouldn’t think about anyone with lust, because that’s the same as committing adultery in your heart. But what does...
Hi. I'm a 17-year-old girl. I have had sex, but I'm not married yet. I hope to marry a Christian man sometime in the future because I am a Christian myself.
Hi,This might be a bit of an awkward question, but I want to know if it’s OK to date when you’re twelve? Everyone else in my class has dated, apart from me.
Hi. I’m a girl of 19, and I’ve had sex with my boyfriend. I’m quite sure that I’m pregnant, as I haven’t had my period. What should I do? I don’t feel ready...
Hello boy girl! I have a question for you. I have a boyfriend with a buddy I suspect is interested in me. But I'm very unsure, so I'm asking you for advice. The...
Hello :) I'm a 14-year-old girl :) and every now and then, I lie down and imagine that I'm having sex with a boy. When I do, I get a good feeling, and I get...
I didn’t know which category to put my question in, so I just tried to do it according to my gut feeling, even though I’m not sure if it’s got anything to do...
Hi, I’m struggling with a habit of watching pornography and stuff like that at home. I want to give it up and try to keep myself as near celibate as possible...
I’ve been thinking about someone for five years. I’m sexually attracted to him, but he is in a relationship. Is this OK or is it wrong?
Hi. I'm a 21-year-old boy who is a Christian. I had a serious relationship a while back with a non-Christian girl, where I was tempted to have sex several...
Hi, I'm a girl of fourteen, and I have a problem. This weekend I’ll sleep at my boyfriend’s house, and both he and I want to have sex. He is also fourteen and...
Hi! Is it normal for a girl to use sanitary pads all the time? Some sort of liquid or slime seeps out when I don’t have my period. Is this normal? I find it...
I have such low self-esteem, what can I do about it? Girl, 15
Hi, I’m a Christian, but I masturbate with a friend from my class. We’re both mad about girls and want to date a girl later on. My question is, is it wrong to...
Hi! I’m a girl of 15 and there’s something I’ve been wondering about for quite a while. I’m a Christian. There’s a boy who I’ve really got on well with for the...
I have decided to wait till marriage before I have sex, but I’m wondering about things like lying together on the same bed, kissing and cuddling – what are the...
Hi! I’m a fifteen-year-old girl, and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I don’t know if I should be ashamed of this, or proud of it, or what? I mean, most people of my...
Hi,I’m a guy of 15 and I need some advice about how to make some good female friends, and how to treat them without people thinking that I’m flirting with...
Is diabetes an infectious disease?
I am a Christian and feel a need for physical contact of the opposite sex, is this wrong?
Hi, I don’t actually have a question, but I just need to unburden myself and find out what you think. I’m in love for the first time. I’m 22 and in love for the...
Hi guys! I really need some advice.There’s a guy who’s interested in me, and I must admit I’m interested in him too. I’m 27 and have never been in a...
Hi, I’m a girl of 15. About six months ago I lacked a lot of iron, and at the same time I got a virus in my lungs which wasn’t dangerous, according to the...
I ended up drinking too much at a party (normally I try to avoid parties) but I ended up really drunk. I ended up with my ex girlfriend, she had also drunk too...
Hi. I am unsure whether I have been raped or not. I was at a party, and had drunk a bit. I started kissing a guy, and he took me outside. He pulled my trousers...
Hi I'm a Christian girl of 13. For a long time now I've struggled with looking at sex and that kind of thing. Sometimes I manage to keep away from it for a...
What should I do if I regret having sex?
Hi :) I have been thinking a bit about Matt 5:28, about lust. I read an article about this on “itro”, it said that there was a difference between lust and...
I like to watch girls having sex. Does that make me a lesbian? Boys do not arouse me, and I often dream about how the girls in my class look naked.
Hello. I’m ‘Boy 19’ and I have some questions. My girlfriend and I are both Christians, and we have decided to wait to have sex. Often if my penis gets hard, I...
Hi, I’m a girl of 14. My mum and dad are Christians. I’m also a Christian and I go to church every Friday with lots of other youths.Recently I’ve started to...
Hello. What is defined as porn? Must it be rough sex, or just a general sex scene? I don't watch porn, but can enjoy sex scenes in movies. Is it just as bad as...
Hi, I’m a girl of fifteen. I was fingered, and really regret it! How can I get over it? Is it wrong to be fingered? Is it against what the Bible says?
I’ve written down some reasons for sex before marriage, could you write some answers or thoughts about what I’ve written?In Norway today the average age at...
I feel like I’ve made a mistake. It started when I visited a chat website where I chatted with a guy. He told me that he was turned on and he asked me to send...
Hi! I’m 23 and still a virgin. I’m the only one among my girl friends who is a virgin, and it’s beginning to get to me. It’s embarrassing, I feel so different...
How can I improve my reputation, from being the one everyone sees as the drunk to being a good guy? :-)
Is it possible not to be able to fall in love? I'll tell you a bit about myself: I guess that I function okay on most scores (not a psychopath for example). I...
Hi, I’m a boy of 14. I’m dependent on pornography and masturbating. I’ve tried to stop many times but I can’t. I also smoke quite a bit. I smoke because it’s...
Hi! I’m a 16-year-old guy, and I’m writing because I find it hard to really get to know people. I’ve got a lot of friends at church, but they are mostly just...
I’m not quite sure, but I think a boy in my class likes me. He’s also a Christian. What should I do if he asks me to be his girlfriend? We’re just fourteen.
Hi. I'm an 18 year old boy and go to a Bible school where I live in, and share a room with someone who was, until recently, my best friend. I get the...
I wonder where the limits of flirting go? When can you flirt and how do you know for sure that you are being flirted with? What characterizes flirtation? I also...
Hi, this is a question that I’ve been thinking about for a long time. I’m starting to wonder if there’s a boy in my class who likes my friend. I think it seems...
Hi, :-) I’m a girl of eighteen who is soon to get married. I’m wondering if I should shave myself ‘down there’ before the wedding. Neither of us have had sex...
Do you have sex when you touch her boobs? I used to think the limit was below the navel, but now I don’t know. I feel like it’s wrong/not a good idea...
Hello! We are two Christian mates and good friends and we are 15 years old. We have had oral sex or sucked each other as it is also called! Is this a sin??
Hi,It says in the Bible that ‘… if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion’ (1 Corinthians...
How should a Christian relate to alcohol? Is it wrong to taste it at all? It says in the Bible that abstinence is a fruit of the Spirit, and I want to live near...
Hi!I’m a girl of fourteen and I have already decided not to have sex before I get married. But I was wondering if people bleed a lot when they have sex for the...
Hi,I’m a girl of fifteen. I’m the type of young person who doesn’t want to try alcohol till they’re eighteen, but none of my friends have the same attitude.
What does the Bible actually say about having a girlfriend or boyfriend? From a boy of 16
Hello. I often find it difficult to generally talk or flirt with girls. Are there any good tips to make this less difficult?
Hi, Is it wrong to date someone if I don’t know whether it will work out or not?(I really love the person!)Anonymous 16 year-old
My best friend has just got a boyfriend. She thinks I’m happy about it, but I’m getting totally fed up hearing about him. I don’t know if it’s jealousy or if...
Hi, Where in the Bible does it explicitly say that people must be married to have intercourse, and how does the Bible define marriage? Marriage in the Bible...
Hi. I think the girl who I’m in love with is in love with my best friend. What can I do to get it out of my mind?
Hi, I’ve got a real problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up just over four months ago. After that I started a new job, and now I’ve fallen in love again.I...
Hello! I am a single 21-year-old boy. I'm a student and I live with good friends and I'm not lonely in the sense that I don't have friends to hang out with, but...
Hello!I am a Christian girl of 22 and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not in a hurry with this, but does the Bible say it's wrong to dance intimately with...
Is it weird to think that you want to touch a girl-friend? And is it strange to have sexual dreams about the person you like?
Hi, I seem to be constantly sad or depressed without knowing why. Why is this?From a guy of nineteen.
Hi, a lot of Christians say that if you have sex before you are married, you somehow become united to the other person, I think they mean that their souls...
Hi,I’m a girl of seventeen who (together with my boyfriend) decided to split up a few months ago. I regret the decision now, as I’m starting to like him more...
Someone I know committed suicide and I’ve been thinking a lot about doing it too. But I’m really wondering what will happen if I do take my life, will I go to...
Hi, I had my first period just over a year ago, and in the past six months I’ve often felt dizzy, and I’ve blacked out a couple of times. I’ve never fainted,...
I’ve got a great girlfriend, but I don’t have much confidence in myself and don’t dare to go any further in the relationship. What can I do?
I’m tired of hearing that I’m unique, that God loves me and so on. I’m depressed every day. I thought that I was getting better, and that I was stronger, but I...
Hi, sometimes I think that it would be nice to have a boyfriend, but if I get one does that mean I’m going against God’s law? From a girl of 14.
Hi. A girl in my class has become more boyish during the 9th grade, she's cut her hair, uses a boyish style and changed her name and picture on Facebook. Now...
Hi, I’m a sixteen-year-old girl and I’m wondering where I can get help with a problem I have.My best friend had sex with her boyfriend (I know that isn’t good...
Hi! I’m a Christian guy, and since I went to high school I’ve been interested in other guys. I’ve never let my feelings develop into anything else, and am quite...
When is it normal to start having sex?
Have you got any tips how I can get a girlfriend?
Hi, I’m a girl of fourteen. I find that I often have a bad conscience, perhaps because I gossip or have bad thoughts about others. I’m trying my best to stop...
Hi, I’m getting married next summer and I use the contraceptive pill sold as ‘Diane’. I want to be sure that this is a combination pill which stops ovulation,...
Hi, I’m a heterosexual guy of 22. I’ve never had a girlfriend. I don’t know how to get a girlfriend, or how I should approach the whole dating thing.The girls...
Hello! I have struggled with addiction to masturbation and pornography for several years now. I have never dared to tell anyone and feel incredibly ashamed and...
Hi, I’m twelve years old,I’m looking forward to sex and have tried to finger my genitals and to touch my clitoris. Touching my clitoris went OK but it was...
Hello!Thanks for a great website and good guidance on sex and cohabitation. Very good that some take up these important things on the foundation of Christian...
Hi, I’m a guy of twenty and I want to stop watching porn. I’ve been watching it since I was thirteen, but I decided to quit six months ago. I managed to stop...
Hello! I wonder what you think about me talking to my girlfriend about my getting an erection. It can be difficult to hide when you are close up, and I wonder...
My father is often angry, works a lot and rolls his eyes when I say something at home. What can I do?
Hello. A boy I like asked if I could stay over in his house and I said yes. So when I was there, we watched porn, even though I didn't want to.Then he asked if...
Hi! I like your website!I’m a single guy, 21 years old. I really love God and want to follow Him with all my heart. In my social circles (Christian) there are...
Hi,My friend keeps saying she is a Satanist, and everyone in the class calls her a Satanist. I don’t know what to do! I don’t think she realises how stupid it...
Is it a sin to masturbate?I’m a Christian girl of twelve. I’m a real Christian, not just one who goes to church at Christmas.I’m not sure but I think that...
Is it abnormal that a girl of fifteen has never been in love? I can’t remember being in love, although everyone else takes it for granted that I’ve been in love...
Is it normal to have a problem with sweat? I get sweat rings under my arms no matter what I do, it just happens even when I’m not stressed. Girl of 14.
What happens to your body after an abortion?
Hi, a friend of mine (who isn’t a Christian), who has sex with her boyfriend, recommended me to use a dildo in order for me to have better sex the first time.
I’m thinking of giving blood, but I wanted to know what the Bible says about it? I’m thinking of the verse: ‘The soul is in the blood.’Is it a good idea...
Hello. I have read a bit in the Bible, and I think it’s a bit difficult to find out what the Bible actually says about getting married. Is getting married the...
I’m wondering if it’s strange that I’ve never kissed even though I’m fourteen, soon fifteen?From an un-kissed girl
Hi, I’m just wondering about what the Bible says about drinking alcohol? I’m 15 and most of the people in my class drink. Two of my friends in the class don’t...
I have very low self-confidence. What can I do?
What do you think about erotic short stories and dirty text messages? Does it mean I am leading my partner into lust? My partner and I have decided wait to have...
Hi 😀 how can I improve my self-image?
Why do the girls have an invisible penis?
I’m a girl of 12 and I’ve got a boyfriend. When we got together I felt like he wasn’t the right one for me and I started to like someone else. We’ve been...
Hi, I’m a girl of 16. I like a boy who’s 17. I got to know him because I like him. What can I do to get to know him better? We’ve talked a little, but I want...
What are the boundaries for what we call ‘sex’?
Hello! I am gay and I'm a Christian. As you know, Christians are often not on the side of us gays, so I don't dare say anything about it to my mom or dad. I'm...
Hi! I was wondering if it’s wrong for a Christian to wear a bikini on the beach? I’ve always done this, and never thought about it as it’s so normal. What are...
I have really bad self-esteem. What can I do?From a girl of 15.
Hi. Can we have sex when the woman has her period? I’ve read about it in the Old Testament, but does this just refer to the people of Israel at that time, or...
Hi, I’m a Christian guy, I’m 16.I’m very aware of not having sex and all that before marriage. I feel like I am in control, and I’ve decided in advance. But...
Hi! I’m part of a group of friends at school who stand by each other through thick and thin. Someone else is interested in joining our group, and that’s fine by...
I like a boy, but I don't dare talk to the boy I like. What should I do?
Uh, hi. Just wondering about Panfilia. It's not quite the same as bisexuality? I guess when you're a panphile, you're attracted to personality and stuff...
Hi, I’m a girl who’s turning fifteen in ten days. I think I like both girls and boys. I’m attracted to girls who are masculine. I also like lesbian sex on...
Why do people talk about losing their virginity?
What happens in your body when you have a period?
Hi, I’m 19 and have never had sex, until this evening. I had sex but didn’t want to do it. What should I do? I’m feeling really hopeless.
Hi, I am a 16-year-old guy. I’ve struggled with my sexual orientation for some time, but realise that I have to finally accept that I’m homosexual. I want to...
I am a failure. Please don’t tell me otherwise. You don’t know me. What I’m trying to say is that I’m feeling really bad. I just feel so stupid! When I meet new...
I was wondering how far I can go with my partner, according to the BIble? Where are the limits?
Hello, we are two friends who have a bit of a problem... Two of our best friends (a boy and a girl) who are not boy and girlfriend showing their genitals on...
Hi, I’m a Christian girl of seventeen, and I want to ask some questions about dating and relationships.I’ve always gone to normal state schools, and the...
Hello! I'm in a phase in my life where I think: "When I get married and can FINALLY have sex, then I will be happy". I have managed to trick myself into...
Hi, I’m a girl, soon fifteen, and I’ve got a question!I’m a Christian girl and I like to talk about God and the Bible, but I have one problem, my family is...
Hi!I think there might be a boy in my class who’s in love with me. I’m not sure if he is, and that’s why I’m writing to you. Do you think he likes me? I’ve...
Hi, I have been thinking about Mat. 5:28 lately. My boyfriend and I wouldn’t have sex before marriage, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t wish to do it, or that...
Hi! I’ve got some questions about shaving the private parts. Is it good to shave down there? I don’t have a good way to do it. I have to use a lot of soap for...
I’m a girl of 23 and have chosen not to sleep in the same room as my boyfriend before we get married. He respects this, and he sleeps in the living room when he...
Hi, I'm a 14-year-old girl and wondering about something. I get dizzy very quickly, especially when I stand up. I feel that my head is buzzing and kind of lose...
How can I be more outgoing? I’m so shy when I meet new people, and it’s embarrassing! I really hate it. It always takes me a long time to make new friends when...
I’m 16 years old, and want to wait until I’m married before I have sex. Have you got any advice on how I can do that? I want to be aware of this before I find a...
Hello. I would like help from you in the area of identity and relationships. Hope it is appropriate to write about it here.I have great difficulty in feeling...
It is a bit difficult to explain this. But is it unusual to have no signs of puberty now? I don't feel that my voice has changed and the penis is still small...
Hi, I’m a girl of 13. My best friend is much more popular than I am, so I get jealous of her easily. I feel that all the girls and boys like her much more than...
What’s a friend?
Does Christianity accept homosexuality?From a girl of fifteen.
I’m a girl of eighteen. I’ve had sex with lots of guys and really enjoy it. I like the excitement of having sex with a new person and I have a great time. Not...
My partner and I have both got ME. What should we do in terms of getting married and having children?We’ve been talking about a small wedding.
I know some people who are very young, but they are married. Is there any limit to what age you have to be to get married?
Hi. I am asexual and have never had any sexual feelings. I’m fine with that, but I do fall in love with other girls (I’m a girl.) The Bible says it is sin to...
Hi!I’m wondering if I have to have a Christian boyfriend when I’m a Christian? There’s a boy I like a lot, and he likes me. I’m just wondering if its OK, to...
I had sex with my partner eighteen months ago. I’ve asked God to forgive me. What should I say if people ask me if I’ve had sex? Should I say ‘no’, since God...
What does the Bible say about those who have had premarital sex?
What is petting? Is it sex?
I’ve been thinking a little about Matthew 5:28. Is it wrong for me to look at a guy and think ‘he’s handsome’, according to the Bible? When I say that, I don’t...
The Bible mentions that the body is God's temple, and is it therefore a sin to be fat? I mean since we kind of destroy/poison the temple? Girl 12 years old...
I can’t find a Bible verse that says that it is sin to live together, so why is it sin?
What does the Bible say about BDSM and fetishism?
Hi, I’m a Christian guy and am so happy that I know God, I also have a huge network of Christian friends. However, there are two things I struggle with in life,...
Hi, I think I’m gay! But my problem is telling my mom and dad because they will be upset about it. What would you recommend me to do?
Hi!This is nothing about a relationship, but as this is a Christian website, I thought I could ask you.I’ve recently got into metal music, particularly the...
Hi! I’m wondering if it really is so easy to say that homosexuality is wrong, according to the Bible?Firstly, Jesus never mentions that homosexuality is a...
How far can I go without it getting too sexual?? Am single, like girls.
Hi, I have a friend who’s in love with a nineteen-year-old boy. (She’s fourteen.) Is this normal?
I’m 19, and engaged! We are both virgins and will wait till marrriage before we have sex. But where are the limits? We’ve agreed not to touch each other, but...
How can I get to know myself and my body without it being sin? I’m wondering about things like who I like and who I’m attracted to and stuff like that.
From a boy of 15. There’s a girl I really like. She’s different from other girls who I’ve met before. We’re good friends, but sometimes it’s a bit awkward to...
Hi, what does God say about anal sex?
I’m a real introvert and I hate it, I’m not extrovert at all. I always hear sermons that say that we have to like the person God has made us to be, but I can’t...
Can I use up my sperm production if I masturbate ten times a day every day?
Hi, I'm a girl wondering what the definition of sex is? Is it morally okay with sucking/licking or fingering/wanking of the other sex? Are you still a virgin...
I think the idea of saving myself sexually for my future husband is really great, and I certainly want to wait till I get married before I have sex.However, I...
Hi! Two years ago I was living in a student hostel in Australia. One evening I was out drinking with my friends, it was quite a casual atmosphere and I didn’t...
I’ve got two questions about alcohol. What does the Bible say about alcohol? How can we see the question about alcohol in relation to different ethical...
Could it be some kind of nicotine in porn? When I hear about people who are trying to quit smoking, I feel like they have the same problems I do, only mine is...
I’m so frustrated as there’s someone in 10th grade who I really like! I talked to him a lot the first time I met him at school, and he was so kind and funny...
Hi, I’m a girl of sixteen who’s just started self-harming. There’s a long story behind it which I won’t mention now. I wonder if it’s serious? When I’ve seen...
Hi, I’m almost eighteen, and had my first period last year, after two to three years of having an eating disorder. After I had my first period my hips and...
I’m a 17-year-old guy. I’ve spent a lot of time with a girl for a while now, and we both have feelings for each other. My problem is that she isn’t a Christian.
What are healthy boundaries in a relationship? (For someone who is soon engaged and married) What is lawful and what is good in God's eyes?
Is it OK to have anal sex before marriage?
Hi, I’m a girl of 12. I don’t have any boobs, but all the other girls in my class do. One time a girl went with small footballs under her jumper, and I looked...
Hi, I’m a girl who’s had the same boyfriend for three years now. We have a really healthy relationship built on Christian values. I grew up in a Christian home,...
I’m a guy of 21. There’s a girl I really like, but I’m afraid of committing myself to her. I guess I’m not the only one like this! My mum is a control freak, so...
Hi boyandgirl.info! I’m 19 and have some questions for you. Me and my boyfriend have been together for eight months now. Before we got together we talked about...
I’m in a dilemma! A lot of Christian youths want to wait until they’re married to have sex. They know what they want, and so they don’t need contraception when...
Hi! Recently I’ve felt a real need to get a boyfriend. I’ve never had a boyfriend before, and I’ve never really longed for one, but now I’m thinking about it...
How can I forgive myself?
Hi. I’ve done a lot of bad things recently. I haven’t done things against other people, but against God. I’ve asked Him to forgive me, and I know He does. The...
I’m really in love with a girl, she also likes me but we’re both quite shy.We would like to do something together but we’re not sure if it should be only us...
Hi! I’m a desperate eighteen-year-old girl, and I’m struggling to masturbate! I’ve never done it properly; no matter how much I try it doesn’t feel good. :-(...
Sometimes someone wants to show me porn. I’m a Christian and don’t want to look at porn, what can I do?
Hello. I wonder if someone based on the Bible can say something about oral sex/experimenting sexually within marriage?
Hi, I'm a girl who isn't usually shy, but when it comes to this, I hardly dare be my real self for anyone, only a few that I have had to be honest with. I am...
Does it say anything in the Bible about drinking? Is it OK for Christians to drink?
Hi, do I have to confess that I’ve fantasised about sex to other Christians, or is it enough to ask God for forgiveness?
Hi,I’m a man of 29. I want to marry my girlfriend, and I’m wondering if there’s anywhere that says that I should get married in a church? I’m also wondering...
Hi, I’m a boy of 14, soon 15, and there are some things I’m wondering about to do with homosexuality. I think of myself as a Christian, and I’m active in...
Hi, I'm a guy who has a friend (a girl) who sometimes has suicidal thoughts. There are several reasons for these. I need some advice on how to help her. She...
Hi :) My wife and I would like children, but it seems difficult. What does the Bible say about getting pregnant using a test tube? Is this meddling with his...
What’s the age limit for sex?
A friend has started teasing me quite a lot in the past few months, and it affects me a lot. I get quite down when he teases me and says nasty things, even...
Hello! I am a 16-year-old girl, and am a diligent Snapchat user. I'm wondering if it's sinful to send "provocative" pictures of yourself to a boy. Both are...
Hi! I’m a girl in her 20s and I feel that I am haunted by my past.When I was younger, I hung around with a group of people, and hardly any of them were...
Does the Bible say it’s wrong to dance sensually with other guys?
Hi, I’m in a depression after my mum died. Am I having delusions?
Girl 20 yearsMy best friend just got engaged and it makes me feel so alone. Because I just realize more and more that her children will probably be like 10...
Hi, I’m a guy of 16. I’ve never had a girlfriend or been involved with any girls. I’m very curious about women and girls, and would like to see one naked, not...
Hi, I’m a girl of eleven, I’ve already got big boobs but I don’t want any before I’m twelve, and I’ve never had spots, is there something wrong with me?
Hi, I’m a girl of eighteen. I was wondering if it’s normal to enjoy and get aroused by watching two women having sex, although I’m not a lesbian? I get really...
Hi! Where should the boundaries be in a relationship? It would be nice to be served some direct boundaries. Is it okay to lie in bed and cuddle? This was not an...
Girl, 14 years old. I’m having sexual cravings, and I’m starting to feel sick of it; how can I avoid being so perverse or focused on porn? … help!
I’m a 16-year-old girl. Some boys have called me ‘ugly’ several times. I have forgiven them, but their words haunt me all the time, especially when I find out...
Is it a good idea to date someone who broke up with his girlfriend two months ago?
What should I do, I’m twelve and a half and I don’t have any boobs, but I want to have them?
Hi, I’m in love with a girl, but she lives at a college far away. I really miss her, but I don’t know what I should do. She knows that I miss her.
Why is it not okay to say fuck and damn when you are a Christian? These words are not mentioned in the Bible. Is it a sin to say those words? People have...
Hi! I’ve been thinking a bit about marriage recently. I’m not going to get married, but I would like to know what the Bible says so that I can know if a...
Hi, I’m a Christian guy of 16. Six months ago I had sex with a girl I didn’t know. She approached me, and I was impulsive, and joined in. I regret it now, I...
How can I cope with loneliness? I’ve moved a lot during my life, and I’ve never had a really good friend who I’ve grown up with. I’ve moved a lot from country...
Hi, I wanted to ask a question on this website since it’s about Christian values. I am not a Christian, but my boyfriend is a Christian. I respect that and...
Hi, Me and my girlfriend have decided to wait before we have sex. But is it wrong to talk about sex and how much we look forward to it? From a guy of eighteen.
Hi! Me and six other Christian girls want to start a Bible group. Have you any tips?
It says in the Bible that you shouldn’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend of the same sex, or something like that, but what do you do if you are in love with a...
Hello. I have cut myself, and have a difficult relationship with food. I think I am developing anorexia. I am getting help, so it's actually going well...
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